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Senin, 23 Maret 2009

How to Read a Woman's Body Language - Flirting

This article is intended to educate its readers in the art of flirting with women, by reading their body language, then using the results to your advantage.

The information throughout this piece is in no particular order, which means you should be looking out for these signs and signals continuously throughout the time you are in her presence. Maybe your on a date or just out for a casual drink as "friends".

Women send out roughly 5 times more body language signals than men, which gives us our first advantage.

If you can remember just a couple of these signs, then reading the body language of a women will become easy because they will express them often if they are interested in you.

When women play with their hair it is called preening. This can be tossing of the hair, running her fingers through her hair in a combing fashion and stroking her hair. This is the most common way a women will flirt with a man. So watch out for this sure sign.

Eating slowly will bring attention to a woman's lips which is a great flirting move because most men find the lips very stimulating.

Physical Contact - If she touching you then this is generally a good sign and you will find that she is more than likely making excuses to touch you because she likes you a lot.

Ladies legs are a powerful tool. If she has them crossed, uncrosses them and directly crosses them in the other direction then this is a sign she is flirting.

99% of a women's body language will be sexual because they know men want for this and so play with them along whilst flirting.

If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, it's either out of habit or desire to get you to pay attention to her lips and sooner or later kiss her. If however she is biting her lips then maybe you are making her feel uncomfortable.

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Rabu, 25 Februari 2009

How to Tell If a Woman is Interested in You by Observing a Woman's Body Language

By Herman Tugimin

Do you want to know how to tell if a woman is interested in you? It is a well known fact that most women settle on a decision about whether you are 'lover material' or 'non lover stuff' in the first three minutes. The first three minutes of your meeting are very crucial since they will either put you 'on board' or you should be shown the door.

What you may not realize is that these first three minutes are also the minutes which should be a testing time for you. You must run straightforward, low-risks tests on her to find out 'if you have any hopes' or in better terms, whether she is interested in you romantically! If she shows interest, then you have 'nailed it', and now you must move forward with renewed zeal.

Now is the time to ask her out. However, the fairer sex is known to change their minds and what is surprising is that being a guy, you may not even see it coming. You need to ask her out and initiate a relationship if you want to know that she is interested.

So, how do you tell if a woman likes you? You are impatiently waiting for the first kiss and boys being boys, would not want to wait too long! If you feel that she is not interested and you have not taken too much time in finding it out, then you stand too lose nothing. Imagine a situation where you feel that things may work out, but she thinks of you as just a good friend. You would be dreaming about how your first kiss may be, while she may just be interested in discussing politics with you!

When you show an interest as soon as you meet her, you may be doing yourself a good deed. After all, you will definitely not be considered as a friend. She will know that you could become a potential lover. With your romantic inclinations made clear, you will let her know that you could be treated as a lover till you assume the 'permanent' position.

The first thing you need to do is to flirt a bit. That is a sure shot way of understanding whether she is game for it. Your flirting is actually a little 'test' for her. If you wish to see whether a woman is interested in you, then flirting will definitely do the trick. After all, women test their men, so why can't men? A woman will respond positively to your advances only if she is interested. So, you will have your answer right there. If she is cold despite your many winning moves, then the best thing to do is to back out.

There are a lot of means by which you can flirt with women, ranging from simple conversations to physical actions. Your entire conversation with the woman should have a flirtatious undertone backed by a similar body language mixed into it. Here are a few signs to test if she is interested. By observing a woman's body language, you may get your answer to how to tell if a woman is interested in you.

1. She gives you a big smile with the upper and lower teeth prominent and at the same time, she has a relaxed face.

2. She gazes deep into your eyes with interest and her pupils are dilated.

3. She bites her lips, shows her tongue, licks her lips or touches her front teeth.

4. While talking to you she strokes her cocktail glass up and down with her thumb and index finger.

5. If she is sporting a see-thru shirt, you can see her nipples getting hard while she talks to you.

6. She sits straight up and her muscles seem firm.

7. Her crossed leg is pointed towards you.

8. She matches the volume of her voice in tune with yours.

9. She touches her cheek or rubs her chin indicating that she is thinking about you.

10. If she is a smoker, she blows smoke straight towards you.

11. She winks at you while having conversation with you.

12. She exposes the palms of her hand while talking to you.

So go ahead and try these few tips and find out if the woman is interested in you!

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language Like a Pro

By Ryan Harten Platinum Quality Author

Are you always going crazy trying to figure out whether or not a woman is into you? If you are then you will definitely want to stick around for a little bit. You see, a woman's body language reveals a lot about what she is really thinking. So if you want to get inside her head, then you must learn to read her body language effectively. Here is how women typically convey interest:

1. Position of Body

If her entire body is facing you during the conversation, it means that she is locked in. In other words, she has made the choice to fully engage you. This means that you have gotten her curious and she wants to learn more.

2. Smiles with Eyes

There is a difference between smiling and REALLY smiling. You see, women smile a lot. They will smile at guys they think are creeps and guys that they would never touch in a hundred years.

You need to pay attention to her eyes when she smiles at you. If she hold strong eye contact (hence, "smiling with her eyes") while smiling at you then it is a strong indication that she is into you.

Nice job buddy!

3. Leaning In

This is one you need to be a little careful of. Women will lean into men for all different reasons. These can include a really crowded club, or loud music. However, if she is leaning into you when there is no reason, this is obviously an indication of interest.

Again, just remember to look at these situations objectively. You will can catch yourself looking for things that aren't there sometimes.

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language

By Maya Martin

Body Language 101:

She looks up at you when you walk into the room. Great. She smiles in response to your smile or says "Hello" in response to your greeting. Also positive signs. But these are not under any circumstances proof of her interest.

The body always tells the true story. Words are chosen carefully to avoid offending others. A woman may engage in pleasantries even when she's absolutely repulsed by the other party. But while she's nodding courteously, her body unwittingly or wittingly reveals her true feelings. So listen to what she's saying but also watch what she's doing.

I've given responses to date-requests that could be read possibly as encouraging - for instance, a waiter asked me in a crowded restaurant if I'd go on a motorcycle ride out in the country with him the next day. I was thinking, "No, no, no!" but he'd cornered me. How to delicately turn him down with so many people in listening proximity escaped me, so instead I lamely offered a "Maybe", which he jumped on, saying, "Great, what time?" Now I was really between a rock and a hard place and had even less idea of how to extract myself. "Well, I'm not sure, when were you going?" I meekly inquired, only digging myself in deeper and confusing him utterly. But in addition to being caught off guard, we were in a public setting and I didn't want to embarrass the guy. I had no intention of going out with him and I didn't.

What does she do when she really likes you:

  • Eyebrow flash: When either a man or a woman is taken with someone, they very quickly raise and then lower their eyebrows, usually followed up with a smile. It's a rather immediate and speedy reflex, so look closely or you may miss it. But don't go gangbusters on this signal alone - women do this when their interest is friendly as well as romantic. Platonic interest is simply a shorter flash. Make sure you're seeing other signs as well as the eyebrow flash.
  • The stare: she makes prolonged eye contact for more than two seconds, followed by casting her eyes downward. This primitive reflex let's you know she wants you and that she is willing to submit to you - meaning she's waiting for you to come over and make a move.
  • Hair Toss:Yes, its true - women flip their hair when flirting. The biological reason is to show their necks. Social scientist say revealing the neck is a sign of submission.
  • Dilated pupils: Women, who are deeply fascinated with you, take on the look of someone who's had one too many hits on the bong - their pupils are unmistakably enlarged into big, black pools of pheromones. Often a slightly goofy smile accompanies. Of course, dim lights also dilate pupils, so again, consider the setting and look for additional signs.
  • Doing the twist: Women getting their flirt on are squirmy. They twirl their hair, bite their fingernail, lick their lips and play with any available object. That kind of restlessness is a definite green light.
  • Touching you touching me: Sure, sometimes women are completely obvious by touching your arm, your hair, your hands, your back, making little excuses to put their mitts on your masculine parts. But, touching themselves is an equally strong indicator that you're a wanted man. We place our hands in all of the places we'd subconsciously like you to put your hands: our mouths, hips, necks, etc. If she's stroking her thigh sensually, you can be sure she's craving contact with you!
  • Body posture: She'll lean into you as you talk and mirror your body movements - you cross your arms and she crosses her arms; you rest your hand on your chin and she follows suit, etc.


What she does when she doesn't really like you:
  • Blockades:She will create barriers subtle or more overt between herself and you by crossing her arms, clutching her books to her chest, holding up a menu or waving hello or goodbye with her hand in front of her face or even covering her mouth or part of her face while she talks to you. Cute though the gestures may be, she's placed interference in the space where connection might have taken place.
  • Shifting eyes: She'll avert her gaze from yours to let you know she's busy with something else i.e. a menu, paper or a cell phone (which she's fished out of her purse to check even if it hasn't rung). If she looks like she wants to get back to her book, she probably does. Walk away.
  • Smile Styles: She doesn't smile or smiles with her mouth but not her eyes or smiles without showing her teeth. All evidence of lukewarm enthusiasm. In fact, any tepid facial animation is a very good indication she's not receptive to you. An interested female beams, showing at least some, if not all of her teeth and laughs, often a little too much. It's unmistakable.
  • Space: She might actually take a few steps backwards creating more physical distance between the two of you all the while continuing to engage in conversation.

Remember: just because she responds to your initial query or greeting or gives a cursory first look doesn't mean she wants you badly or at all! Prematurely going in for the close is bad, bad, bad! Women respond to conversational overtures easily and kindly and they perfunctorily inspect new males entering a room as a matter of course, just like men will do. There must be more indicators of interest for you to be sure she's grooving on you. Now you have them!

Good Luck!!

Maya Martin, Relationship Coach


How to Read a Woman's Body Language to Know She is Interested in You

By TC Pepi

You are standing in a pub or in a mall or partying and an attractive woman happens to catch your eye. Your jaw drops to the floor and bright shiny star shaped objects start rotating around your head like rings around Saturn. Well, you are surely hooked, but how do you determine if the woman in your sights is interested in you too? For starters, start by reading her body language before you muster up enough courage to talk to her.

Even before you manage to talk to her, you might be able to catch subtle glances being thrown in your direction. You might notice her glancing frequently in your direction and then slowly looking away. If she does it only once and looks quickly away, then she obviously is not interested but if she keeps on looking at regular intervals and if her eyes linger on you a wee bit longer at every glance, then she is definitely into you. After checking if Tom Cruise or some other hunk is not standing directly behind you, get ready to make your first move.

Ask a common friend to introduce you to her and if that is not possible, then make the move yourself. If your intuition has been right then you need not worry. Observing the woman's body language now becomes imperative since you will also need to know if your first impression has been favorable and whether you can proceed to the next step. Even if you are with a group of friends while introducing yourself, you might notice the woman glancing shyly towards you and facing you most of the time. You can use the humor test to check out her feelings towards you. If she laughs at all your jokes including some pathetic ones, then consider it a positive sign. She might start flipping her hair more often and might also start to nervously play with the strands of her hair. She might also start fiddling with her earrings or any pendant around her neck while talking or listening to you.

A woman's stance will also reveal if she is interested in you. If she seems relaxed and continuously tilts towards you, then you are on the right track. She might also touch your arms lightly as she laughs at your jokes. On the other hand, if she stands with her hands folded across her chest and tilts backwards every time you tilt towards her, then the charm has surely worn off. It just might be time to climb off the moving train rather then get totally humiliated at the next station called rejection. On the other hand, if her fingers regularly fall on your arms at increasing intervals then she is definitely checking you out. Even as you tighten your biceps, triceps and every other muscle group in your arm, continue to observe her body language and mind your language as one misplaced sentence can spell doom to your budding relationship.

By concentrating on the woman's body language while appearing cool and relaxed at the same time, you can interpret the signals being thrown at you before and during your courtship. This will enable you to make the right moves without getting embarrassed or rejected in front of others. So, go out there, mingle and watch out for the woman of your dreams radiating favorable signals towards you like a flower beckon a bee.

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Jumat, 20 Februari 2009

Learn to Read a Woman's Body Language - Dating Guide For Men

By Sandra Christian Platinum Quality Author

When a woman is attracted to you, she says it beyond words. Look for both words and body language. All her body parts say something, and if we do not know what they mean, we are missing out. Look at what her eyes say, what her arms say, what her legs say and so on.

What is she doing with her arms and hands? She may be playing with her pen, meaning that she is nervous. When a woman is nervous in front of a man, that is a good sign because that means she has some feelings for him. Is she folding her arms? This is a bad sign. It shows disinterest and she is closing herself on you. It also means that she does not mind being rude to you (that is a put off!). If you see this, better end whatever you are doing abruptly and excuse yourself. There is no use wasting time on that woman.

If she is interested, her legs should face you. If her legs are faced outwards, away from you, that might mean she is not interested, and may feel like she does not want to engage in the conversation any longer. Think of a nice way to end the conversation early and excuse both parties.

What does hair-flipping mean? That she is hair- conscious? When a woman does so, this means she wants attention. That is also a sign of interest you can look out for.

Now that you have learnt how to read the signs, you know better now when she should continue to spend time with her, or just plain give up and look for anything. Clinging on to a rotting relationship is the obstacle to finding a new one.

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Kamis, 19 Februari 2009

What a Woman's Body Language is Secretly Telling You

By Scott Patterson Platinum Quality Author

At any given moment, women are sending you signals with their body language. If you know how to read and interpret these cues, you'll be able to know when she's attracted to you.

And when you know she's into you, it becomes much easier to flirt and create a dynamic conversation. In fact, you can find out how "you're doing" with a woman simply by studying her body language.

For instance when you say something which she finds interesting, a woman will move closer and start touching you more. When you see a signal like this, you know your flirting techniques are working!

So when talking to a woman, you'll always receive either a positive or negative reaction from her body language. It's up to you to pick up on these cues and act accordingly.

Ultimately studying her body language will help you determine if your conversation is going well.

Here are few examples of positive and negative body language cues a woman will display during a conversation:

Positive Body Language

  • She moves closer to you when you say something interesting
  • She locks eyes with you and ignores everyone around her
  • She looks for opportunities to touch you

Negative Body Language

  • She moves farther away from you during the course of the conversation
  • When you're talking to her, she's looking around the room
  • Her arms are folded and she has closed body language

As I mentioned before, it's up to you to pick up on these cues and use them to work on your flirting skills. Over time you'll become a master at noticing women's body language and will know how to behave when you detect certain signals.

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language - Become the Guy Who Can Read the Female Mind!

By Pushpa Pal Singh Platinum Quality Author

Do you know that women are the hardest to figure out specially when a lot of women out there normally don't tend to say what's on their mind. They might say something and mean the exact opposite of it and at the same time say something and desire the exact opposite of it as well. But you see you can very well figure out what's really going on in the woman's mind by studying her body language. Read on to discover some of the most mind blowing ways using which you can easily read a woman like a book.....

If she likes you- If a girl tends to like you she would play around with her hair, touch her neck, wrist or would tilt her head to the sides while talking to you. At the same time she would have her chest facing towards you at all times. This indicates that she is open towards you and is enjoying being in your company.

If she doesn't like you- If she doesn't like you she would have a closed body language where she would have her chest facing in some other direction while talking to you and at the same time she would have a very dry look on her face and would not look straight into your eyes while talking to you. She would never make direct eye contact which is a very common sign that she doesn't like you.

How to know if she is ready to be kissed or physical? - Now this is where most guys have a lot of doubts. When a girl is ready to be kissed she would always sit very close to you and would talk to you being very close to your face. Also she would either lick or bite her lips while talking to you and at the same time would directly stare at your lips when you are in conversation.

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How to Know If She is Into You - A Woman's Body Language

By Bryan Burbank Platinum Quality Author

When you are on the dating scene it is good to understand what a women's body language is so that you know if she is really into you. We can tell a lot about ourselves with our body language and you should learn some tips to help you out.

It is good to observe if a woman plays with her hair when you are talking with her because this is a great way to know that she has an interest in you or not.

Also watch a woman who uses her fingers in a seductive way even if it is slightly. A lot of woman will touch certain parts of there body such as there face, neck and thighs because she will without knowing it be thinking about you caressing these parts. A woman can also use her eyes in a seductive way and if you pay attention you can pick up on this and have a great advantage.

Also watch her body position because if she faces you are moves closer to you this can be a good sign that she is into you and really wants to be closer to you. But if her arms are crossed and she is stand offish then this can also be a good sign that her mind is elsewhere.

You also can see if she likes you by the things she says. If she is always talking about her other boyfriends then she may not be that interested in you and is dwelling on a past relationship.

Remember that body language can be a great guide to tell if a woman has an interest in you or not.

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Assessing a Woman's Body Language and Judging Her Indicators of Interest

By David Gallo

When you were a young child, have you ever tried to decode what your parents' facial expressions mean when you ask them to buy you a new toy or to take you to Disneyland? A frown would likely be a "No!" But a nod would make you jump with joy. As you grow older, it has become a necessity to be able to detect if other people will agree with your decision or proposal. It's especially important to for men to be able to asses a woman's body language in dating situations. This is an ability that will truly help negotiators, employees, and even lovers to succeed in their ventures because they would be able to change their approach early enough to adjust to a specific situation.

There are certain hints to indicate if people are more receptive in accepting your ideas. If a woman is interested in you, she'll probably exhibit at least a few of thee following:

• Their hands are flat on the table.

• Their palms are open.

• If they're stroking their chin, they're thinking. They may agree with you after careful evaluation.

• Their heads are inclined forward.

• They are nodding their heads.

• Their legs are spaced out from each other.

• They smile frequently.

• They unbutton their jackets. This indicates friendliness and willingness to collaborate with you.

• Their hands are open. This also indicates genuineness.

• They place their hands in their chest. This signifies openness and conveys sincerity, honesty, or dedication. However, a woman putting her hands in her breast is a defensive position and may indicate that she is surprised or astonished.

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Senin, 16 Februari 2009

Learning to Read a Woman's Body Language - Flirting Tips

By Jean Pettit Platinum Quality Author

Men spend a lot of time worrying about what a woman says. But communication is not just about her words; her body does a lot of talking, too. In fact, scientists believe that the vast majority of human communication is accomplished non-verbally. In one study, psychologists observed 52 unique movements that women make in social settings! Therefore, the more you understand subtle body movements, the more clues you'll have to understanding what a woman is thinking. For starters, consider the following bits of body language.

1) How is she using her arms? She might be smoothing her skirt or pants. This is an unconscious way of making sure she looks her best. Or she might be fiddling with a pen or straw. This is a clue that she's nervous and interested. And if she holds her hand to her chest, she's probably touched by something you've just done or said. Way to go!

However, if her arms are folded across her chest, then she's taking a defensive posture. Folded arms indicate closing one's self off. If you see this sort of language, you might not bother approaching her. If you're already engaged in conversation, try moving to a less prying subject.

2) How is she using her legs? Think of legs as an arrow. If she's facing you squarely, her body is indicating interest. If she's turned sideways, she could be wanting to leave!

3) What about her eyes? If a girl or woman is interested in you, she'll focus on you as you speak. On the other hand, if her eyes are darting about the room, she's likely looking for an exit strategy.

4) Is she touching her hair? Even as pre-teens, young women master the art of hair-flipping. A girl who is attracted you will often rake her fingers through her hair or engage in the occasional flipping of hair over her shoulder. She wants you to notice her!

By paying attention to body language, you'll have many more clues as to what a woman is thinking. If she shows signs of disinterest, try another conversational topic, or consider moving on to someone else. But if you've got a combination of open arms, legs pointing toward you, eye contact, and some hair twirling, then her body is saying that you look like a good catch.

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language Like a Pro With the BEH System

By Derek Rake Platinum Quality Author

As the professionals say, up to 90% of communications is non-verbal. In other words, you can often tell a lot about a person by observing his or her non-verbal ques. And most importantly, body language doesn't lie.

So how can you use this to your advantage when it comes to dating women? It's easy, really. By observing a woman's body language, you can tell whether she's attracted to you sexually (or otherwise). This article outlines the three surefire ways you can gauge a woman's interest in you sexually by observing her body language. In a nutshell, you look at her (1) body, (2) eyes and (3) touching of her hair. That's all you need to do to get a fairly accurate understanding on whether she's into you or not.

The "Body-Eyes-Hair" (B.E.H) System of reading body language

First of all, look at how her body is positioned, especially in relation to yours. If she is positioning her body away from you, it's a surefire sign that she's not into you. On the contrary, if she gets closer as you talk, it's a good indication that she has got the hots for you.

Bonus tip: once she is close to you, don't be afraid to touch her in a non-threatening way (ie on the hand, elbows or the back).

Secondly, look at her eyes. Does she maintain her eye contact when you're talking to her (good) or glaze over (bad)? If you look at a woman at a distance and she looks away and then 'steals a glance' at you again, it's a sure sign that she fancies you.

Thirdly, look at what she does with her hair. If a woman plays with her hair after she notices that you look at her, it's a good sign that she is into you. If you're already talking to her and she twirls her hair while looking at you directly, it's really time to take it to the next level!

OK, now I know that she's attracted to me. Now what?

Once you know if the woman is interested in you sexually, then it's time to amplify the attraction to the next level. There are several ways to escalate things to the next level (physically and emotionally). One such way is the technique of 'fracteration', which is widely used in the psychologist circles to deepen the effect of hypnosis. I have written extensively on this powerful method - visit http://www.DeadlySeduction.com for a free report.

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Learn to Read a Woman's Body Language - Dating Guide For Men

By Sandra Christian Platinum Quality Author

When a woman is attracted to you, she says it beyond words. Look for both words and body language. All her body parts say something, and if we do not know what they mean, we are missing out. Look at what her eyes say, what her arms say, what her legs say and so on.

What is she doing with her arms and hands? She may be playing with her pen, meaning that she is nervous. When a woman is nervous in front of a man, that is a good sign because that means she has some feelings for him. Is she folding her arms? This is a bad sign. It shows disinterest and she is closing herself on you. It also means that she does not mind being rude to you (that is a put off!). If you see this, better end whatever you are doing abruptly and excuse yourself. There is no use wasting time on that woman.

If she is interested, her legs should face you. If her legs are faced outwards, away from you, that might mean she is not interested, and may feel like she does not want to engage in the conversation any longer. Think of a nice way to end the conversation early and excuse both parties.

What does hair-flipping mean? That she is hair- conscious? When a woman does so, this means she wants attention. That is also a sign of interest you can look out for.

Now that you have learnt how to read the signs, you know better now when she should continue to spend time with her, or just plain give up and look for anything. Clinging on to a rotting relationship is the obstacle to finding a new one.

To learn more about dating & flirting techniques, you can visit mindchic. A blog that specialize in helping couples build strong relationship & singles to get a date fast!

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Understanding A Woman's Body Language And Picking Up On Her IOIs (Indicators of Interest)

By Spence Michaels Platinum Quality Author

Understanding a woman's body language is the single best way to tell whether she is attracted to you. Time after time I hear guys saying that they're not sure whether or not a woman is interested. I've even heard this many times from really good looking guys who have women throwing signs at them left and right. It's amazing to me how oblivious most guys are to a woman's body language signals. The great thing about body language is that even when a woman tries to hide her interest - she usually can't. Her body language is a dead giveaway for what she's really thinking. However there are some exceptions to this. While body language is very important I don't want you to get discouraged if you aren't seeing any signs.

First of all, beautiful woman who are used to getting approached all the time can sometimes turn off most body language by convincing themselves that they aren't interested in you. Some women won't give you a chance off the bat because they have built up an inner dialogue that totally consumes them as soon as they see a guy approaching. This is one reason why standard pick-up lines don't work. When you try a standard pick-up line, you are telling a woman, "I'm here to pick you up", and very often they'll instinctively turn off body language.

Even if she's giving you no signs of interest at the beginning, have no fear - Use the techniques I've been teaching you in this book and you'll get her body language to change from negative to positive in no time. But for now let's assume she isn't being a complete cold fish and she's at least acknowledged your presence. There are many facets of body language that one can observe when judging a woman's level of attraction. Actually at any given time during a conversation there are over a thousand different signals you can look for! Imagine that - once you begin to understand these signals you can never be in the dark again about whether a woman is interested in you. Let's start by breaking down each facet of language.

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Minggu, 15 Februari 2009

Read a Woman's Body Language to See If She's Into You

By Elvin De Lima

OK, you've been single for a while now and you've decided that it's time for you to hook up with a woman now. This might be you. You might have been in a long relationship lasting for a few years that you can't remember how to play the game. You've forgotten how to dress nicely, what things to say, and where to go to find a woman. We have all experienced this anxiety but don't worry I can help you gain your confidence again. There is one thing from a woman that you need to pay attention to. That is her body language. If you can read her body language, then you have cut down a good amount of work to hook up with this girl.

The first thing you can read from her body language is her eyes. If there is a girl that you like, look at her and wait till she looks at you. Don't look away. If she keeps looking at you, acknowledge her then look away. Look at her again. Try to notice if she keeps looking your way every few seconds. Obviously, if she keeps looking at you, she likes what she sees. Try to meet eyes again and when you do, smile at her and look away. This should start to build your confidence. You've read her eye contact and you know she likes you because she's looked your way several times now. Good job.

The second thing you can read from her body language is her body position towards you. Let's say you made the eye contact and you conclude that she likes you. You go up to her and begin conversation: "Hi there, my name is Jeff. I really like your shoes." Next, try to notice her body position towards you. When she replies, try to see if her shoulders are square to yours, meaning her front is facing your front. This is a good sign because her body language is saying that she is open to you. She is not crossing her arms or her shoulders are not turned away from you. She is comfortable with you. Good job.

Another thing you can read from her body language is that if she makes physical contact with you. While in conversation, she may touch your arm or place her hand on your chest. The physical contact is a very natural move for the woman and she might not even realize she is doing it. This is a good sign. You must be aware when she touches you because that means she is into you. For example, let's say you're talking to this woman that you like. You say something to her that makes her laugh. She might lean into you, or put her head on your shoulder, or grab your arm. You're making her really comfortable. Realize this and then you can go deeper into the relationship with this girl.

So, we have found out that if we single guys read a woman's body language we can conclude if that woman is really into us. We can take a look at the woman's eyes if she keeps looking our way. We can see that in conversation, if the woman's body position is square with ours, then she is interested in us. Lastly, if the woman makes any physical contact with us like touching our arm or leaning into our body then she is comfortable with us. So next time you're out there looking for a woman, remember to read her body language!

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How to Read a Woman - A Woman's Body Language Says a Lot

By Christopher Hansen Platinum Quality Author

When you are approaching a woman in an attempt to pick her up, there are many ways you can tell if she is interested in you or waiting for you to leave. A woman's body language can tell you a lot if you pay attention and understand what subtle things can mean. Reading body language can save you from being rejected or allow you to get her number.

Hopefully you already know how to approach a woman and how to break the ice. This can be tough for a lot of men so if you are having problems with this, keep reading to the end of this article for immediate help. Otherwise, once you are already engaged in conversation, here are some body language signals a woman may give:

Sign #1: Not making eye contact: If you notice that she refuses to make eye contact with you by looking away at someone or something else, then there is a good chance she isn't interested. Don't waste too much time if this is going on.

Sign #2: Smiling at you: If a woman is smiling at you, listening, and making eye contact, then this is a good sign that she is into you. Keep up the conversation but be sure to listen and ask questions as well. She will be even more interested if you show a deeper interest in her.

Sign #3: Fidgeting around: If a woman is tapping her feet or moving around, this could be a sign that she is waiting for you to leave. The chemistry isn't there so do yourself a favor and cut the conversation short.

Sign #4: Touching: When a woman is really into you, she may begin touching your slightly on the hand, arm, or shoulder. This is a good sign that she is very interested. Keep saying the right things and you should be able to ask for a date.

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language - And Find Out If She Likes You With 100% Certainty

By Derek Rake Platinum Quality Author

Guys, we have all been there before - we think that a woman fancies us but we are just do not feel too sure about it. It would be super handy if we can identify easily some hints and methods to figure out (with surefire certainty) what a woman really think of us.

Now here's the real deal - you can find out if a woman likes you easily - by simply 'decoding' her body language when she is with you. The thing is that when a woman likes a man, she will send out certain body language hints or clues which anyone can pick up easily - all you really need to do is to be aware of these signs and learn to identify them with ease. Read on to discover the easy (but effective) ways to know if a woman likes you or not by looking at her body language...

Three Sure Body Language Clues That She Will Show If She Fancies You

Sign One - She Invades Your Space. Does she lean into your direction when she talks to you? If she does then it is a sure sign that she fancies you.

Sign Two - She Fiddles With Her Hair. This often happens without her really even knowing it consciously. She definitely likes you if she plays with her hair when in a conversation with you.

Sign Three - She Becomes Talkative With You Around. Does she have lots of comments and ask you lots of questions when she is talking to you? If she does, then she likes you - no doubt.

Now that you know if a woman likes you (or not) through observing her body language, what should you do next? Simple - you will need to intensify her feelings that she already has for you to the next level.

One dead easy way to do this is to use this 'covert' technique called 'fractionation' - which is known to be able to make a girl want to sleep with a man in 15 minutes (often less). Absolutely killer stuff, though highly controversial at the same time.

Before you use this technique, you must first heed this warning...

Fractionation is considered as a 'dark art' tactic which is the basis of hypnosis-based seduction, and while controversial, it is known to be one of the most effective tactics ever invented by underground seductionists.

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These psychology tactics are highly unconventional techniques that are used by the secret elite in the seduction community. Use at your own risk. I personally vouch for the effectiveness of these tactics, but care must be taken as they could be outright dangerous in the hands of the unscrupulous.

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Learning to Read a Woman's Body Language - Flirting Tips

By Jean Pettit Platinum Quality Author

Men spend a lot of time worrying about what a woman says. But communication is not just about her words; her body does a lot of talking, too. In fact, scientists believe that the vast majority of human communication is accomplished non-verbally. In one study, psychologists observed 52 unique movements that women make in social settings! Therefore, the more you understand subtle body movements, the more clues you'll have to understanding what a woman is thinking. For starters, consider the following bits of body language.

1) How is she using her arms? She might be smoothing her skirt or pants. This is an unconscious way of making sure she looks her best. Or she might be fiddling with a pen or straw. This is a clue that she's nervous and interested. And if she holds her hand to her chest, she's probably touched by something you've just done or said. Way to go!

However, if her arms are folded across her chest, then she's taking a defensive posture. Folded arms indicate closing one's self off. If you see this sort of language, you might not bother approaching her. If you're already engaged in conversation, try moving to a less prying subject.

2) How is she using her legs? Think of legs as an arrow. If she's facing you squarely, her body is indicating interest. If she's turned sideways, she could be wanting to leave!

3) What about her eyes? If a girl or woman is interested in you, she'll focus on you as you speak. On the other hand, if her eyes are darting about the room, she's likely looking for an exit strategy.

4) Is she touching her hair? Even as pre-teens, young women master the art of hair-flipping. A girl who is attracted you will often rake her fingers through her hair or engage in the occasional flipping of hair over her shoulder. She wants you to notice her!

By paying attention to body language, you'll have many more clues as to what a woman is thinking. If she shows signs of disinterest, try another conversational topic, or consider moving on to someone else. But if you've got a combination of open arms, legs pointing toward you, eye contact, and some hair twirling, then her body is saying that you look like a good catch.

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How to Read a Woman's Body Language - Become the Guy Who Can Read the Female Mind!

By Pushpa Pal Singh Platinum Quality Author

Do you know that women are the hardest to figure out specially when a lot of women out there normally don't tend to say what's on their mind. They might say something and mean the exact opposite of it and at the same time say something and desire the exact opposite of it as well. But you see you can very well figure out what's really going on in the woman's mind by studying her body language. Read on to discover some of the most mind blowing ways using which you can easily read a woman like a book.....

If she likes you- If a girl tends to like you she would play around with her hair, touch her neck, wrist or would tilt her head to the sides while talking to you. At the same time she would have her chest facing towards you at all times. This indicates that she is open towards you and is enjoying being in your company.

If she doesn't like you- If she doesn't like you she would have a closed body language where she would have her chest facing in some other direction while talking to you and at the same time she would have a very dry look on her face and would not look straight into your eyes while talking to you. She would never make direct eye contact which is a very common sign that she doesn't like you.

How to know if she is ready to be kissed or physical? - Now this is where most guys have a lot of doubts. When a girl is ready to be kissed she would always sit very close to you and would talk to you being very close to your face. Also she would either lick or bite her lips while talking to you and at the same time would directly stare at your lips when you are in conversation.

What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Do you know there are some secrets women don't want men to know but you absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with women? Read on to discover 9 most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know. This is something you can't afford to miss at any cost click here- Tell Me The Secrets

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