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Senin, 16 Februari 2009

Understanding A Woman's Body Language And Picking Up On Her IOIs (Indicators of Interest)

By Spence Michaels Platinum Quality Author

Understanding a woman's body language is the single best way to tell whether she is attracted to you. Time after time I hear guys saying that they're not sure whether or not a woman is interested. I've even heard this many times from really good looking guys who have women throwing signs at them left and right. It's amazing to me how oblivious most guys are to a woman's body language signals. The great thing about body language is that even when a woman tries to hide her interest - she usually can't. Her body language is a dead giveaway for what she's really thinking. However there are some exceptions to this. While body language is very important I don't want you to get discouraged if you aren't seeing any signs.

First of all, beautiful woman who are used to getting approached all the time can sometimes turn off most body language by convincing themselves that they aren't interested in you. Some women won't give you a chance off the bat because they have built up an inner dialogue that totally consumes them as soon as they see a guy approaching. This is one reason why standard pick-up lines don't work. When you try a standard pick-up line, you are telling a woman, "I'm here to pick you up", and very often they'll instinctively turn off body language.

Even if she's giving you no signs of interest at the beginning, have no fear - Use the techniques I've been teaching you in this book and you'll get her body language to change from negative to positive in no time. But for now let's assume she isn't being a complete cold fish and she's at least acknowledged your presence. There are many facets of body language that one can observe when judging a woman's level of attraction. Actually at any given time during a conversation there are over a thousand different signals you can look for! Imagine that - once you begin to understand these signals you can never be in the dark again about whether a woman is interested in you. Let's start by breaking down each facet of language.

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